I have a good supply of candy and, hot buttered rum mix and rum.
A few years back I read here some people in the inner city were taking their kids to more affluent neighborhoods and trick or treat.
There were the gripers and at first I agreed. Their argument held a lot of water but I did something unusual. I figured give the kids a break and be kind. I couldn't blame the kids.
I simply bought an extra bag of candy and called it good.
I figured they'd probably hit the higher end neighborhoods but wanted to be prepared. Then I thought again. I DO live in a 'rich' neighborhood...relatively speaking. My house is made of brick.
If you are living in a tent and someone else is living in a plywood shack is one of them rich guys.
I did get hit by maybe fifteen or so kids that were obviously from the city and instead of just giving them the bum's rush I chatted with them. A couple of them commented that I had a big, nice house and said they'd like to live in one. (My place is somewhat middle middle for the neighborhood at best).
The adults politely refused my hot buttered rum which makes sense. They were driving and also had to set an example. I would have refused if I were in their shoes.
I was good to them and encouraged them to get ahead and make something of themselves and think for themselves. If they did and worked hard they could have a nice place someday.
Anyway it's been a few years and I hope that at least one of them got a look at the burbs and is working at trying to get out of the city. It would be cool to find out that at least one of them went on for further education or some kind of apprentice program and eventually gets out of the city.
